Prioritizing QUALITY than QUANTITY

Bismillah 

Assalamu alaykum

Reading of some voice-of-contention forced me to sit and think how the people around particularly parents conceived about children. 

Always be heard "membesarkan keluarga, meramaikan umat, memperbanyakkan zuriat" and more variety of rhetorical when attending talks and speech. 

But how do we as a smart-talented-parent-to-be considered it in our family? 

In reality of community we find a lot of raff rather than children who trained to form into a pillar of strength Islam. 

To whom should be blamed? Thumb up to a hendolism-materialism parents; fairly I believe most people with a well mindset agreed it too. 

Hendolism known as "pandangan hidup yang menganggap bahawa orang akan menjadi bahagia dengan mecari kebahagiaan sebanyak mungkin dan sedapat mungkin sehingga menghindari perasaan-perasaan yag menyakitkan". 

Remembering that we have been thought to practicing a few matter with some specific rules heading of Islam. Fiqh-Aulawiyat(Fiqh Keutamaan) is once of  the methods. 

Will continue discuss about Fiqh-Aulawiyat, InsyAllah..

Our children our responsibility 

Granted to me & hubby from Allah The Almighty, Alhamdulillah 

  

Be a-real-good-wife

Assalamualaikum wbt
In addition be a real-good wife, we suppose to be a brilliant Muslimah too. It is not easier than you might think. Royalty is the key to be success. Lets check-up our self.

Say bye to two-thousand-eleven..

Will all the Loves and kindness-the day was undeniably amusing to me. Having the hours with my dear husband and my baby boy was an incredibly beautiful (it took me hardly a minute to believe that I am married and have a cute-little-boy). I couldn't help but to indulge in my recollection of previous years; on my life. I still remember how I spend my long Msc journey with my lovely ASPAC colleagues-by attending seminars and workshops all around north-south-east-west. It made my years and the sightseeing was worth. Tranquility, was what I searched for, and Alhamdulillah it was a perfect ending. This year has brought, along with love, other things. Somethings that I think would make the life riding worthwhile. Somethings that I couldn't foreseen before. It has this irresistible charm of its own-you know that. It was beautiful; in everything. At least for our little-happy-family. Thank you Allah.

Man Ana...

MAN ANA

Dah lame suke lagu ni,siap dh blh hafal..baru ari ni nk tau maksud nyer..jom kite hayati...

Ana in saaltal-qouma 'anni man ana
jika ditanya aku tentang siapakah aku,

Ana mu`minun sa a'isyu dauman mu`mina
akulah mukmin yang akan hidup sebagai mukmin

Falya'lamil-jami'u 'anni ha huna
maka ketahuilah semua orang aku di sini,

Lan anhani lan antani lan arkana
tidak akan terhina atau terpesong maupun cenderung

Inni ra`aitullaha fi akwanihi
sesungguhnya Aku melihat Allah dalam ciptaanNya,

Wa sami'tul shautul-haqqi fi qur`anihi
dan aku dengar suara kebenaran dalam QuranNya.

Wa lamastu hikmatahu wa faidha hana`ihi
dan aku sentuh hikmahNya dan belai kasihNya

Fi siratil-mukhtari fi imanihi
dalam sirah mereka yang terpilih imannya

Ana mus-hafun yamsyi wa islamun yura
Akulah Mushaf yang berjalan dan Islam diperlihatkan

Ana nafhatul-ulwiyyatun fauqats-tsara
akulah angin meniup tinggi atas setiap pelayar

Al-kaunu li wa li khidmati qad sukhira
alam ini bagiku dan bagiku khidmat yang telah dimudahkan

Wa li man ana, ana lilladzi khalaqal-wara
dan untuk apa aku, aku untuk yang menciptakan semuanya

Ana kaukabun yahdil qawafila fits-tsara
Akulah bintang yang menunjuk qafilah dalam perjalanan,

Wa ana syihabun idza ra`aitul munkarat
dan akulah kejora jika kulihat kemungkaran2

Ma li siwa nafsun ta'uddu 'alasy-syira
tiada bagiku selain jiwa yang menentang kejahatan

Qad bi'tuha lillahi wallahusytara
telah aku jualkannya pada Allah dan Allah membelinya


Wallahu 'alam

Syukur Alhamdulillah..

Assalamualakum wbt

Alhamdulillah dan syukur dgn nikmat Allah yg tak terkira sehingga hari ini. ALhamdulillah kami telah berpindah ke rumah baru dgn harapan ikatan kekeluargaan kami akan semakin erat, insyAllah. bknnye sblm ni xerat tp sblm ni xde privacy. Kami bertahan hampir 2 tahun,Alhamdulillah Allah yg mengatur segala yg terbaik. Situasi skrg lebih gembira & membahagiakan terutama bg hakimYgBijak krn beliau sgt2 excited dok umh skrg. Terima kasih ya Allah atas rezekiMu..

Tiap2 ari apply keje tp blom ade rezeki.nk kata putus asa,iAllah blom ada lg perasaan tu. rezeki yg dtg hanya peluang sambung belajar. mampukah??tanye diri betul2 wahai mamaHakim..papaHakim blom setuju selagi offer itu tidak memenuhi kriteria2 yg beliau yakin..haha,serik dh kot dgn pengalaman dulu or krn beliau perlu bersedia sbg org penting utk support mental & fizikal when mamaHakim further study kelak..

Last week meting ngan Dr Hana,sorry Dr.i can't proceed it due to some reason. Nk suh register asap but lab baru nk set-up.Apekah??awl2 lg papaHakim suh reject. Next,tggu beberapa offer lg.ceh,mcm bnyk plak offer..ade lar 2-3..tp sblm sambung blajar,mental kn poolish blik, dh lame karat but yg paling penting,sanggupkah nk tinggal hakimYgBijak di bwh penjagaan org laen??argh, yg tu xmo pikir lg..

Atas desakan papa,pencarian nursery utk hakimYgBijak pn dh satle..nnt kene training blik.anak manja mama n papa ni blom pnh tggl ngan org laen,tmbh plak masih begantung nenen time nk tido.but now ok skit.papa dh try tidokan dia tanpa mama.syabas papa!

Papa nk ajak holiday,katanya dh lame x kluar dr KL ni.kite blik kg weekand ni dh kira holiday lar papa..Nop!nk jgk p jln2 mkn angin..erm,mamaHakim xrsa pn nk p jln sbb masih mood mengemas rmh..semangat mengemas ngan hero ni.

Alamak,mengantuk suda.hakimYgBijak tido awal,sah2 pg esk pn bgn awl..papa dh order fries,sosej n mix vege tuk breakfast pg esok.oh,kna tido skrg n bgn seawal mungkin..nite

Wasalam

Siapakah wanita cantik itu?

✔ Dia melukis kekuatan melalui masalah.
✔ Dia tersenyum saat tertekan.
✔ Dia tertawa saat hati sedang menangis.
✔ Dia tabah saat dihina.
✔ Dia mempersona kerana memaafkan.
✔ Dia mengasihi tanpa balasan.
✔ Dan Dia bertambah kuat dalam doa dan pengharapan Ilahi.
~> Jadilah diriku wanita cantik itu...amin

i'm still thinking in my mind..

Assalamualaikum wbt

people keep asking, how to be happy in life or how to get things easily or to get rid of unwanted things or problems without facing so much trouble or difficulties. i've heard a few questions from different people with similar problem,

1- how can we get money easily without putting much effort on it?
2- can people respect or treat us well at all time?
3- what is the best method to get excellent grades without studying hard?
4- is there any place for me to flee so that no one will recognize me
5- are there good man/women still in this world who will accept us just the way we are?

the answer is yes and no. i won't detail them out here, yet my pint is, there should be gave and take in life. give our best to get the best,or as the famous saying goes,the more you give, the more you will get back. sometime there are easy say than be done. everyone including me hopes that things will work smoothly as planned. but if there is obstacle along the process, don't run and hide.face it positively with courage so that we would be able to look at what we have achieved with pride. IMPROVE OURSELVES.THINKS OF AND LIST OUT THE BEST SOLUTIONS.AND GIVE THE VERY BEST BY HEART. honestly,it doesn't mean once you fail, forever you will.sometimes, you'll fail several time,you might break down and cry. cry it out as much as you want. but then, wipe your tears and stand up to face it and do SOMETHING about it. never back down no matter what because there is a price to pay for the happy ending.

InsyAllah...